Stepping into September
/There’s a special excitement that visits me in September. Possibility and growth speak to me a little louder. It’s when I pause and ask, “Am I living the life I want? What do I want to change? Do I need new shoes?”
I’m not literally talking about shoes (though I do sometimes buy new shoes in September!). What I mean is, “Do I have the right shoes for the next steps I want to take in my life?”
We change. We grow. Some years bring more scuff marks. Some wear through our soles and souls. Sometimes, we just need to change shoes for the next part of our journey.
There are a lot of choices. I could choose sparkly high heels, cowgirl boots, bunny slippers, tap shoes, walking shoes, or even no shoes at all – just going bare foot. Each choice reflects how I want to show up in my life.
This September I choose to be brave. I choose a glossy purple pump with a wide heel – strong enough to support me while I stand tall, bold enough to help me shine in the spotlight. It is classic, bright and speaks of courage.
Yes, these fit me perfectly for what’s ahead.
What shoes will you choose to step into this September? I’d love to hear from you.
"Even the smallest shift in perspective can reveal an entirely new world of possibility." - Unknown
Tiny Self-Care Tip
Shoe Swap – Literally change your shoes midday. Going from sandals to sneakers or slippers signals a fresh step and can shift your energy.
What I’m Reading
“The Let Them Theory” by Mel Robbins teaches you how to stop wasting energy on what we can’t control and start focusing on what truly matters: YOU!
“Journey to the Heart” by Melody Beattie
After I do my morning journaling, I read her daily writings. The book is full of my sticky notes and the pages are marked up with my notes. I’ve quoted her wisdom, given the book as a gift and am always thrilled at how the right lesson appears to me at the right time. Some would say that’s synchronicity or quantum physics. I prefer to think it’s magic!
The Coaching Corner
For me, one of the best things about coaching is hearing people’s stories. Sometimes they are in a challenging chapter of their life and talk about their anger, pain, or grief. Sometimes they are in happier chapters and talk about their dreams, growth, and happiness. It is an honor and a privilege to witness people; to really be with them; to hear and see them; to laugh with them; to help them face their fears.
I’m often asked how I can do grief work. “Isn’t it sad?” Yes, sometimes it is. Sometimes I can feel my heart cry out. AND… it is the most amazing thing to witness and hold space for the process of a person going from broken to lost to healing to growth. It is the most honest and satisfying work I’ve ever done. Real people are teaching me about real life. It’s a gift I cherish.
Do you have a question or topic you’d like me to address? Send me an email and let me know.
One last thought “Cinderella is proof that a new pair of shoes can change your life.” – unknown
Maybe I’ll run into you at the shoe store!